john's response

Right now is not the time to consider getting back together.  If it were I'd be all for it, but we were not working, I was not happy, and you didn't seem to be.  I am not changing my mind.  I still think highly of you and I appreciate you including me in turner's activities and hope you'll continue.  I wish things were different or had turned out different but they didn't.  We fought WITH each other we fought FOR each other and after two years we were still fighting, just not as much as before.  I wanted it to end completely with the exception of the occasional argument over something substantial.  So to be 100% honest, I have no intentions of getting back together.  I want to continue my relationship with turner and understand that may be hard for you.  IF it is, please let me have a night a week, or two nights a month with him where I can just take him to dions for some "guy" time and I'll be happy.  He's my boy and I cannot loose him.
 
I realize I'm going to get a response.  Please fight the urge to send multiple long e-mails.  If you're going to respond, save it up and send just one long e-mail because I promise you, I do not have time for a bunch of long e-mails.
 
I hope you have a really great day!  Truly!